Background: I'm accompanying Frederick during the prelude music at a wedding tomorrow afternoon, and we attended the rehearsal dinner. After the toast, one of the grandfathers of the couple stood and gave some insight.
Grandfather : "My wife and I have only been married 64 years..." Applause from the guests "...but I just want to share that it takes a lot of give and take. It takes a lot of work. It takes a lot of "Yes sir" and "No ma'am"."